

Don't Beat Up On Chris Brown For Being A Victim Of His Own Success
So, I heard while driving into work this morning that R & B sensation, Chris Brown, was ordered to go back to jail. I listened to some of...


Four Biggest Relationship Killers: Part One- Not Dating Enough
I get asked this question every time I do a relationship workshop/seminar. What makes relationships/marriages fail? So, I have put...


It's Official! Women Who Get Off The Couch Get More Dates!
Weekly, I find myself giving dating advice to my friends- many of whom are women by the nature of my work. However, December was a record...


Santa, Send Me A Man For Christmas: Why Women Should Date More Than One Man To Find The ONE
It's Christmas and, somewhere, a woman is upset that she woke up and discovered that there was no great man under her Christmas tree....


Black Men DO Love Black Women
This morning, I had the pleasure of doing NewsOne with Roland Martin of Radio & TV One and we discussed a recent article that had...


Is Kissing The Key To A Happy Marriage?
How often do you and your sweetheart smooch? It better be twice daily if you want a happier marriage. I'm not saying that you have to...


Why Settle For Being A Wife-y When You Can Be The Real Thing?
I was first introduced to term “Wifey” by the R & B group NEXT in 2000. They had a song entitled, Wifey, that flew up the charts because...


Less Is More: No MVP Award In Relationships
If there is one thing that psychologists, therapists, and helpers in general are notorious for it’s bringing a MVP attitude into our...














