Dr. Alduan Tartt, clinical psychologist and minister, explains the research and scripture associated with the top six needs of women in relationships and marriage. If you've ever felt like something was missing in your marriage but couldn't quite name it, you are not alone. Research consistently shows that women in marriage have six core needs — and when those needs go unmet, the relationship doesn't just struggle, it slowly starves. These aren't unreasonable demands. They are God-designed...

Dr. Alduan Tartt. clinical psychologist, discusses the six things Godly men need to see you as a wife. How To Date As His Future Wife — 6 Things That Set You Apart From the Woman He Plays With There is a difference between a woman a man enjoys and a woman a man chooses — and that difference is rarely about her appearance, her accomplishments, or even her faith. After more than a decade as a clinical psychologist working with Black men and the women who love them, what I have found is that the...

Dr. Alduan Tartt, licensed clinical psychologist and ordained minister, responds to the State of Dating Black Men Report in 2026 to bridge the gap between single men and single women. After more than a decade as a clinical psychologist working with professional women and the men they are trying to love, what I have found is not that Black men and Black women are incompatible — we are profoundly uncommunicating .  We are speaking two different emotional languages, carrying two different...