Single ladies, if you’re getting ghosted after a first date, it’s often not because you aren’t attractive—it’s because the date quietly slipped into interview mode  instead of connection mode . At all cost, avoid this question, "Tell me what you do for a living." For goodness sake, never ask about about how much money he makes, his credit score, what car he drives or even what part of town he lives in (if you are trying to assess his wealth). Men despise this question with a