Dr. Alduan Tartt, clinical psychologist and minister, discusses three ways to communicate needs in your relationships and marriages so you never waste dating falling in love with someone who is misaligned with your plans for marriage, relationships and life goals.

Dr. Alduan Tartt, clinical psychologist, discusses how to heal children who witness trauma, violence, and parental suicide with co-guest Jolanda Jones. Every year in the United States, approximately 15.5 million children are exposed to domestic violence. One in 15 witnesses intimate partner violence in the home. And perhaps the most devastating statistic of all: 90 percent of parents in violent households believe their children do not know what is happening — while 90 percent

A Psychoeducational Response to the Tragedies of Dr. Cerina Wanzer Fairfax and Shaneiqua Pugh By Dr. Alduan Tartt, PhD Licensed Clinical Psychologist "The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit." — Psalm 34:18 "Two are better than one... for if either of them falls, the one will lift up his companion. But woe to the one who falls when there is not another to lift him up." — Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 In the span of just three days in April 2026,

Dr. Alduan Tartt, clinical psychologist and minister, explains the research and scripture associated with the top six needs of women in relationships and marriage. If you've ever felt like something was missing in your marriage but couldn't quite name it, you are not alone. Research consistently shows that women in marriage have six core needs — and when those needs go unmet, the relationship doesn't just struggle, it slowly starves. These aren't unreasonable demands. They ar

Dr. Alduan Tartt. clinical psychologist, discusses the six things Godly men need to see you as a wife. How To Date As His Future Wife — 6 Things That Set You Apart From the Woman He Plays With There is a difference between a woman a man enjoys and a woman a man chooses — and that difference is rarely about her appearance, her accomplishments, or even her faith. After more than a decade as a clinical psychologist working with Black men and the women who love them, what I have

Dr. Alduan Tartt, licensed clinical psychologist and ordained minister, responds to the State of Dating Black Men Report in 2026 to bridge the gap between single men and single women. After more than a decade as a clinical psychologist working with professional women and the men they are trying to love, what I have found is not that Black men and Black women are incompatible — we are profoundly uncommunicating .  We are speaking two different emotional languages, carrying two

Dr. Alduan Tartt, licensed clinical psychologist and minister, discusses three habits that couples should have as believers to improve marital success and decrease divorce rates. If you want a stronger relationship, don’t just say you both believe in God—practice your faith together. Harvard’s Human Flourishing Program highlighted a 14-year study showing that regular religious service attendance was associated with about a 50% lower risk of divorce.   That should get every co

Dr. Alduan Tartt, licensed clinical psychologist and minister helps men and women to best attract a future spouse by building self-concept and following God's plan for finding a husband or wife. Your List Is Blocking the Man God Has For You You have been praying for him. You have been preparing for him. But what if the very list you have been using to find him is the reason you keep missing him? Most single women have spent years refining their checklist — his height, his inc

Dr. Alduan Tartt describes how our brains can trick us into wanting relationships based on social comparison, lack of connection and/or patience. However, there are times when the pain is in tune with our actual need to be in relationships for our short and long-term happiness. If you've ever felt invisible during Valentine's Day, Christmas, or New Year's Eve while everyone else celebrated with someone special, you're not alone—and you're not broken. Holidays magnify what's m

Dr. Tartt provides three strategies for being more optimistic and positive in relationships and marriage. Choosing Hope: How Faith Changes Your Love Life In a world flooded with breakup stories, cynical dating advice, and constant disappointment, it's easy to lose faith in love. Maybe you've been burned before. Maybe you're watching good marriages around you crumble. Maybe you're tired of trying and wondering if healthy love is even possible anymore. But what if the problem i